How to stop checking your ex’s social media

The direct answer

What should you do right now?

Add friction between the urge and the profile. Mute, unfollow, log out, or remove shortcuts, then decide what information you are hoping to find and whether finding it would actually help.

Five practical actions

Remove their profile from search history and quick-access links.
Mute or unfollow if that supports your boundary.
Write what you hope to discover before opening the app.
Replace the checking ritual with a two-minute action you can repeat.
Track each day you protect the boundary rather than counting every urge.

How Unsent can help

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Frequently asked questions

Is it normal that stop checking their social media?

Strong and conflicting feelings are common after a breakup. The important question is not whether the feeling is allowed, but which next action best supports your wellbeing and boundaries.

Can Unsent replace a therapist or crisis service?

No. Unsent is a breakup recovery and wellbeing companion. It does not provide therapy, diagnosis, medical care, or emergency support.

Can I use Unsent for free?

Yes. Private letters, mood tracking, no-contact tracking, panic tools, gratitude, five daily Sage messages, and the first seven Journey days are available free.

Unsent provides general wellbeing tools, not therapy, diagnosis, medical advice, or emergency support. If you may harm yourself or someone else, contact local emergency services or an appropriate crisis resource in your location.